Okay to Ask book cover, an orange book with a handwritten post-it note and the Okay to Ask wordmark

Real questions from real young people, answered honestly

152 anonymous questions written by young people in schools, each answered with honesty, care, and no judgement. Post-it notes and all.

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What's inside

Over 150 real questions written anonymously by young people in schools, about relationships, sex, their bodies, and growing up. Each question comes with the original handwritten post-it note and an honest, expert-written answer.

No euphemisms, no evasion, just the answers young people actually want. The book covers consent, puberty, sexual health, identity, contraception, online safety, and everything in between.

Produced in a distinctive 210×210mm square format, the Okay to Ask book is designed to be picked up, flicked through, and left on a table for anyone who needs it.

The Okay to Ask book shown front and back, front cover with the wordmark, back cover listing sample questions

Who is this book for?

For parents and carers

A conversation starter for home. See the questions young people are really asking, and how to answer them.

For schools

A reference that's always on the shelf. Quick, honest answers for when students ask unexpected questions, in the staff room, the library, or the PSHE cupboard.

For young people

A book that treats them with respect. The questions they've always wanted to ask, answered without judgement.

For everyone

A coffee table book, a gift, a training resource. Designed to be picked up, flicked through, and left somewhere for anyone who needs it.

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A taste of what's inside

Every question in the book is answered on this site too. Here are a few to try.

Sex

How do you know if someone wants to have sex with you?

consent communication

Read the answer
Anatomy

How can a man use the toilet when they have a boner?

puberty body confidence

Read the answer
Contraception & Pregnancy

Is there pre-cum if you haven't masturbated?

puberty body confidence

Read the answer

Written and produced by the Tailor team. All content aligned to DfE statutory guidance and the PSHE Association Programme of Study.

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